I figured out the name. It came to me while reading Slummy Mummy in the bath last night. (a fun little read about a mom who's not yummy or totally put together, she's not harried because she works full time, she's just a little more scatterbrained than your average mom and she's not really ashamed of it -- most of the time. It's fun.)
Anyway, back to the important topic: the novel has a name. Are you ready? Drumroll, please....
Putting The Damage On
By Emily B. (I'm considering using an ancestral surname in the interest keeping stalkers from finding me and allowing my cult-following type fans to pronounce my pen name...all the cool kids are doing it...)
There's a nice double entendre in the name - if you've read it you'll understand. ;-)
I'll leave you with Tori Amos performing her song of the same name (which has nothing to do with my novel) live: